Welcome to Wedding Dialogues, Kelly's website for alternative weddings and commitment ceremonies!

Here you can find:
  • a new wedding / commitment ceremony each season written by Kelly for you to use
  • a description each season of a wedding custom
  • legal information on finding an officiant for an unusual ceremony and on allowing a friend to officiate at your wedding or civil union
  • advice on emotionally preparing to fully experience your ceremony
and more!



This website is for couples who are planning legally binding weddings, couples who are planning legally binding civil unions, and couples who are planning commitment ceremonies. It's for opposite-sex couples and same-sex couples. And, of course, it's for every curious visitor who happens upon it! To keep the website simple, Kelly often often uses the word "weddings" in an inclusive sense, to refer to commitment ceremonies and civil unions as well as legally binding weddings.

All text copyright 2008 Kelly Fine. You may print any page from this website for your personal use. Do not reproduce anything you find here by other means or for another purpose without my permission.